If you aren't on twitter at this point I'd have to assume you're not into social networking. Twitter has swept the nation bigger as any site before it. I feel the reason that's the case is you actually have a better chance to connect with the people. That's why it's called "follow" I feel that way. I will say this the BS has landed just like any social networking site. You got a group of people that are just looking for attention and will go through great lengths to get it. They'll post nudes, beg you to listen to their new mixtape, etc and do it all day with great vigor. You have the folk that's always mad. You know the ones that are never pleased with anything and love to talk down all day. In the mad category are those that man/woman bash all the damn time. Then last but not least you have those that just let you in their life and use twitter for what it is. Now at any point we can fit into any of these boxes cause we are human we have emotions, we have agendas. What boggles me is the constant need to have followers. Just like myspace before it the number of followers are defining how cool you are. This my thing I only follow those that I find the things that they say and their lives to be interesting. I don't follow anyone just cause I find it to be lame. there's people on your your following list right now that has never said anything to you or shown any interest in you. Why are they there? We all fall for the #FF crap every week it never fails. I understand the purpose of it but people don't use it properly. We just recommend people to follow any one. How cool is that? I want to only to follow people like you cause I find you interesting. I set my profile to private for that reason (and spam). I actually research every time I see "New Follower Request" cause I don't want to offend people or hurt anyone. I know I'm a weird person and have some strange views of life but the thing is those that follow me feel the same way or are at least amused by it. Those that I follow deserve my follow cause I think they are cool. I'm aware that the numbers reflect your coolnest but I ask you this do you think all that follow you really think you're cool ? I think everyone I follow are the coolest dead ass shouts to the girls in Naptown yall my fav females on twitter. Shouts to the NT fam (if you don't know what NT is you ain't suppose to). Shouts to my Duval folk y'all know who I fucks with. Fuck it shouts to those I follow on twitter I got love for all y'all.

Today's relationships between men and women is as weak as ever. Men have the general idea that every woman is she's a money hungry bitch or a hoe. On the flip side women view of men is that's we are all dogs and can never be trusted. It saddens me that this is the case cause I can remember when this wasn't even remotely the case. The funny thing about all of it is the fingers get pointed as for who's fault it is. For me I'm neutral, it's almost a chicken vs egg situation. Dare I dig in a little? Come on you know I'm going to.

My only way to do this is to compare the old to the new. When a young Tony was growing up men cheated on women a lil less than today. The difference was women would stomach it for the sake of the kids, for the state of family. Salomon had a gang of wives and I'm sure that was a passed down tradition before him. Does it make it OK? Not all, but I said that to say this... It's in a males nature to have a healthy appetite for women. For a while women evolved to counter that appetite by being every woman to her mate. What I feel is that is women started to attach themselves to male traits in the quest to be treated equal. Women lost the interest to be superwoman. Women stopped sweeping dad's cheating under the rug cause shes too busy in her quest of equality. Mom also is seeking what daddy stopped giving her at home as well. What takes place is little man sees his daddy getting it all over town so he assumes that's the OK thing to do. Not only that lil momma see daddy doing his thang also the music that's promoting cheating and sees that as the way to live. Niggas then become "not shit". Lil misses you're right we aren't but who's fault is that though? My thing is this the tit for tat has created a wall between the sexes. Men don't wanna do better cause the attitude of the new school woman. Women don't want to give a dog a chance to learn tricks cause she doesn't want to be bitten. We are at a impasse how can it be fixed? I have no idea. We both are the problem not just men, not just women. We've lost so much value in one another it's sickening. Our value to each other is "niggas aint shit" and "money over bitches". All I can say is wow. For me it defeats the purpose we might as well be like other animals and just have sex for pro creation purposes only. With both of us having our own problems I ask women "Why do you hate me?" when we both are as guilty? Or is my perception skewed?

In this day and age people spend more and more time on the net, hell I'm one those people. We got our facebooks, myspace, and twitter pages all poppin which we update all day with random info and pics that look into our lives. We let people be the fly on the wall or the bird that follows us. My concern is this are we really the person that we portray online or is @insert twitter name here a fasade of what we really want to be but to afraid to embrace in real life? I've encountered all kinds of personalities online. The guy/girl that always has the most outrageous stories or statements, how about the Internet baller or the model chick with barbie, baddest, or dream somewhere in their handle? You got the funny guy, the "real"nigga or bitch, and the sexually confident woman. I can go on and on. I've hung out with quite a few people that I only knew from online and I will say about 60% of them were like online. I'm not saying that in a negative way just as in you were cooler on the net kind of way. It's just a lil odd but I understand online we exist but we don't we can hide behind our avatars and profiles and let those be the things to convince others of our personalities. We don't have to answer to anyone and we have no rules. My thing is this whats so hard about falling for our own hype? If the person you want to be is what you live online why not try it out in the real world? I only can speak for me when I say this... This is me 100% of it. The words you read are those of my heart and mind. Now look at your profile and tell me Is That Really You?

Aight I'm a music lover anyone that knows me knows i listen to music all damn day. I'm also a person that'll give any artist and every album a listen to before i join the hate or love wagon. Let me say this I think Fabolous is one of the best out. He has some of the hardest punchlines I've ever heard. I just got the new album Loso's Way on my desk and im loading it to my iphone as I type. Y'all will be getting my reaction to each song as I listen to it. Here we go......

1. The Way (intro) = Beat is nice, bars good(I was running the city you were learnin to step) ok the bars are starting to decrease in quality.

2. It's My Time (Feat. Jeremih) = Yikes this beat is fucking epic, hook fits well, got a great sing along feel to it, Fabs bars aren't that great on it but he's riding this beat though. I really like this beat. The highlight of the song is Jeremih, Fab you needed him for this one.

3. Imma Do It (Feat. Kobe) = Who the hell is Kobe? Not the black mamba? OK it's not KB24. This beat got annoying real quick. Bars average at best and whats with the "I dont give a fuck lines" at the end of the verses? I dont like this at all

4. Feel Like I'm Back = Beat starting like a southeren beat...oh it is. This hook is wack. OK Fab with a southern flow is wack. Next!

5. Everything, Everyday, Everywhere (Feat. Keri Hilson) = R.Les owwwwww! Beats nasty. Fab what you doing to the beat? Keri baby you sound like shit on this. I've made to 1:43 of the track and I cant take anymore.

6. Throw It In the Bag (Feat. The-Dream) = I was told this was the single. Its my first time listening to it. What is this the tricking anthem? Beat > the bars and the flow on this. "Bag full of chip we ain't talking ruffles" Fab are you even putting forward a effort?

7. Money Goes, Honey Stay (When the Money Goes Remix) (Feat. Jay-Z) = (-_-) at this beat. what the hell is this crap? Oye Vey this is extra wack.

8. Salute (Feat. Lil Wayne) = Lets see if Weezy shits on Fab on his own shit based on the songs I've heard thus far. "I'm not a boxer, I'm gonna be brief" nice line fab. Whats with that lame juno line? Wayne is all over the place with his bars they were ok at best. OK fab bring it home cause I'm not impressed. OK I've heard a variation of every single punchline on this song.

9. There He Go (Feat. Paul Cain, Red Cafe & Freck Billionaire) = This sounds like a soundclick beat. Hook is weak. Bars are a tad bit better. This beat is really dated. This ones OK just not great. If these bars was pasted on something else it would be better. They should have gave Freck more bars he had the best bars.

10. The Fabolous Life (Feat. Ryan Leslie) = Another Next Selection track yessss. Once again beat great. So South Beach. Fab seems to be able to ride R.Les tracks well. My thing whats with the bubblegum bars though?

11. Makin' Love (Feat. Ne-Yo) = Another soft ass track? Really? Beat is meh. Ne-yo's on point. I think I've had enough of the soft shit from this album. Put a red dot on a nigga or something. NEXT!!!!!

12. Last Time (Gotta Go) (Feat. Trey Songz) = -____- NEXT!!! Sorry Songz I cant take this shit.

13. Pachanga = ahhhhh this shit is wack shaddduuuuuppppp!

14. Lullaby = This better be a song bout murder. Yessssss! I want more of this. Beat makes me wanna cock my gun. La la la laaaaaaaa! I like this joint (pause) *Volume up 2 notches*

15. Stay (Feat. Marsha Ambrosius) = Marsha I love you! Fab shut up like real talk. I'm looking foward to the hook again. Ahh there it goes. I see the purpose of this track. Do I like it nope. Next!

16. I Miss My Love = -_- beats better than the spitter.

Ok lets see...... ummmm......... this album sucks! I liked 3 songs tops on this effort or lack there of. Fab I understand that songs for the ladies makes money. Do that and get back to what the fans love you for. I wanted more tracks like lullaby. I wanted mixtape fab, I wanted Fab that says yesss every few bars cause he gave me a dope line. What you gave me was this crap. I'm not interested in watching the Loso's Way movie cause I'd have to assume that its you trickin and kissing the whole movie.

I'm sure you're looking at the title and like WTF kind of title is that? Sit back and you'll see folks. I ask do you have what it takes, do you have what it takes turn love into a successful relationship? Most people think love is all you need to be happy, those people are stupid if you ask me. To have something real takes both parties being realistic. When I say be realistic I mean step out of your fantasy world and say hey we live in a real world let's take it head on together. First things first we need to realize we live in a "what have you done for me lately" society. That means it's not bout what you did it's bout what you do. What you won't do someone else will and more than likely better. Fellas you're woman need to know she's the most beautiful and the best woman ever. If you have to force that then you don't feel it and more than likely not her either. Ladies we are men make us feel that way. Give a lil submission will get you a long way trust me. We live in a society where cheating is becoming more and more normal. I'm not a fan of it but I understand. Men cheat typically for lack of variety. Men don't like life to get to predictable and normal. We like spice in our life no matter how little. We cheat more so with our dicks and not with our hearts. Sorry fellas but all men are dogs we just need a master to treat us good, feed us right both literally and figuratively, and let us hump when we in heat. If a dog gets that ladies he'll never leave the yard. Ladies y'all cheat with y'all heart. Y'all step out most of the time cause ya man ain't emotionally there. With that being said fellas be in her heart as much as you're between her legs.
We're in a day where women work as hard as men. In a successful roles need to be understood. Yes damn it I said I let me explain. Part of what makes a man feel like a man is bringing home the bacon, well in today's world man and woman bring both bring in the paper. That creates a power struggle. Both parties gonna feel they work the hardest and wants the other to cater to them. Why not cater to one another. Take turns cooking or share the task together. Fellas some women actually like to cook but don't want to feel like a slave a simple thawing seasoning goes a long way. It may be a time both of y'all ain't feeling like cooking. Before y'all bug out on one another how bout y'all go out to eat. How bout you take her to he place y'all ate on your first date? Decision making is another big issue. Compromise people just do it. It's OK to submit a lil on both sides. Last but not least really know who you're dealing with. Ladies you know if you have a man women go crazy over but do you really know how he'll respond to the attention. Trust is built on knowledge. Know your partner and you'll know where his or her head is always is at. Don't be afraid to talk and talk honestly. Well I'm going to get back to my late night y'all be easy but before I go I question do you have what it takes? Do you have what it takes to be the man/woman your mate needs, wants, and wish for?


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