I'm sure you're looking at the title and like WTF kind of title is that? Sit back and you'll see folks. I ask do you have what it takes, do you have what it takes turn love into a successful relationship? Most people think love is all you need to be happy, those people are stupid if you ask me. To have something real takes both parties being realistic. When I say be realistic I mean step out of your fantasy world and say hey we live in a real world let's take it head on together. First things first we need to realize we live in a "what have you done for me lately" society. That means it's not bout what you did it's bout what you do. What you won't do someone else will and more than likely better. Fellas you're woman need to know she's the most beautiful and the best woman ever. If you have to force that then you don't feel it and more than likely not her either. Ladies we are men make us feel that way. Give a lil submission will get you a long way trust me. We live in a society where cheating is becoming more and more normal. I'm not a fan of it but I understand. Men cheat typically for lack of variety. Men don't like life to get to predictable and normal. We like spice in our life no matter how little. We cheat more so with our dicks and not with our hearts. Sorry fellas but all men are dogs we just need a master to treat us good, feed us right both literally and figuratively, and let us hump when we in heat. If a dog gets that ladies he'll never leave the yard. Ladies y'all cheat with y'all heart. Y'all step out most of the time cause ya man ain't emotionally there. With that being said fellas be in her heart as much as you're between her legs.
We're in a day where women work as hard as men. In a successful roles need to be understood. Yes damn it I said I let me explain. Part of what makes a man feel like a man is bringing home the bacon, well in today's world man and woman bring both bring in the paper. That creates a power struggle. Both parties gonna feel they work the hardest and wants the other to cater to them. Why not cater to one another. Take turns cooking or share the task together. Fellas some women actually like to cook but don't want to feel like a slave a simple thawing seasoning goes a long way. It may be a time both of y'all ain't feeling like cooking. Before y'all bug out on one another how bout y'all go out to eat. How bout you take her to he place y'all ate on your first date? Decision making is another big issue. Compromise people just do it. It's OK to submit a lil on both sides. Last but not least really know who you're dealing with. Ladies you know if you have a man women go crazy over but do you really know how he'll respond to the attention. Trust is built on knowledge. Know your partner and you'll know where his or her head is always is at. Don't be afraid to talk and talk honestly. Well I'm going to get back to my late night y'all be easy but before I go I question do you have what it takes? Do you have what it takes to be the man/woman your mate needs, wants, and wish for?


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